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R.C.Oliver's avatar

Elizabeth, this is truly beautiful. I think we all forget what a journey this all is. Your devotion to truth, description of visiting and parting from adult children, your vulnerability - these things moved me. Thank you.

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Eileen Dougharty's avatar

So many people would not have picked up on the details of small conversations, of bits and pieces from your travels that you wove together into a tapestry of words. Most certainly my favorite type of story ❤️

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Susanne Scott's avatar

I am sitting here with tears in my eyes and a lump in my throat. As usual your writing has moved me. Your words describe feelings I cannot describe but feel all the same. Thank you dear friend. Love you.

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Jill CampbellMason's avatar

Such a journey of heart and with a daughter's partner who doesn't speak a language you understand--do we ever really understand?

Many many journeys!!

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Rita Ott Ramstad's avatar

Ugh, Elizabeth. I have a lump in my throat. I know you know I know. "It’s one of the hardest things we do, daring to give ourselves over, and over, to what we can’t keep." We are spoiled and I am regularly gutted by what I can't keep. This is just beautiful. I feel in it the exquisite mix of wonder, joy, and pain that every visit with my daughter is now.I am glad you are safely home. (Also, I did a little internal cheer when I heard that you had an empty middle seat. What good luck and a great omen!)

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peter b stifel's avatar

A few days ago, my almost useless right eye saw a huge Grifola frondosa, nessled up against an ancient oak along the old carriage lane through the woods and along the creek in to Hope. Returning to it later, I was able to dislodge it with a delicate, but effective long-handled shovel,,, scurry it onto an old beach towel, and hoist this cumbersome mass, with all the strength my tired old arms could muster, into the trunk of my buggy------- it must have weighed twenty or more pounds...

Subsequently, I've been processing it,,,, to be able to enjoy and share every little bit of it---------

Think omelettes,,, stir fries,, tinctures,, 'shroom soup,, dehydrating,, and freezing------Tra La

I feel so lucky to 'reconnect' with you through your wonderful 'scratchings' and fondly recall our musings at the St M's market about Jack-O-Lanterns,,, fairy rings and other things mycelial--------

Be well,,, be well,,, be well------------

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Jaihn's avatar

Hello Elizabeth - thank you for this - Beauty-full writing. I live only at home, and you transported me round the World. The moments, the not-saying then but saying here. All those details your wheelchair-pusher told you. I'm chair-user, not pushed these days as I venture no further than my Lovely Garden - but I felt the over-the-shoulder exchange again, as you were whisked along. Really, such a voyage you've conveyed. Elephant Trees, dog-hungry folk, Ocean paddling + the pain of the let-go's. Such richness. Thank you. x x x J

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